There is this idea out in the ethers that you can only be whole (perfect, wonderful, forgiven,) once you complete something. Maybe complete a ritual, do a certain amount of work, gain a certain number of years of experience, earn a few degrees. There is this mistaken belief that something is required of us to be whole.
Nothing, and I mean nothing, could be farther from the Truth.
You are whole just as you are.
You are whole in this very moment, regardless of what negative or positive feelings you are having.
You are whole, perfect, powerful just the way you are.
Take this affirmation with you. Remind yourself of it whenever someone says " You have to do this, this and this to be _________________ (some version of worthy in their eyes).